One of the fundamentals BADLY BEHAVED humans depend on…
Is your lack of IDENTITY.
Once they observe you have an identity crisis, they love bomb you till become a target.
They know you are impressed by the minutest show of affection so they act like they care but they deeply don’t respect you,
They are just in your corner to drain you.
An identity crisis is when you accept everything from everyone under the guise of patience,
But there is a difference between patience and lack of self-respect. Or patience and lack of self-love.
You can be patient with dignity,
You can be patient and assertive,
You can be patient and not unintelligent.
Some humans love people who submit to them but they won’t submit to.
They love humans they can walk on, oppress and shred without resistance.
Resist the urge to be an emotional footmat by investing in your self-affection account.
Self-love stops you from drinking rubbish.
Also, stop changing yourself for people who don’t know themselves.
I am rooting for you
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